tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8113039007643369603.post7008678943463765107..comments2024-01-06T23:42:50.856-08:00Comments on Writers' Rest: What You Can Do for the Weary and Burdened Who Have Special NeedsMolly Noble Bullhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08811325552308982572noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8113039007643369603.post-90785149412560005462013-01-09T07:37:28.129-08:002013-01-09T07:37:28.129-08:00Such a good thought, Connie. And thanks for sharin...Such a good thought, Connie. And thanks for sharing, Jennifer and Molly. We have a special needs family in our church who also fosters special needs kids. Even though our church is sympathetic to this family and have created a program called "King's Kids" to reach more mentally disabled young people, the mother gets frustrated sometimes that we aren't doing more. (In a Godly way of course.) I can't begin to imagine what she goes thru getting her family ready for church every week. And I lose it if my 7-yr-old grandson can't find his shoes quickly enuf. <br /><br />Thanks for bringing this issue to our attention. May we all do more across America to include and offer support and fellowship to families affected. Teresa Slackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11649279446549391739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8113039007643369603.post-19004502828173799782013-01-08T19:02:51.203-08:002013-01-08T19:02:51.203-08:00Thank you Connie and Jennifer. Please read my non-...Thank you Connie and Jennifer. Please read my non-fiction book in paperback, The Overcomers: Christian Authors Who Conquered Learning Disabilities. To find it, just write Molly Noble Bull in the search slot at online and walk-in bookstores. The book is also available as an e-book at Amazon and other places. <br />I am not only one of the five authors, I am a dyslexic. In fact, all five of us suffered from learning disabilities and still do. One of the five is Margaret Daley, president of ACFW. <br />I would love to come to that conference you mentioned, Jennifer. I would also love to sell The Overcomers there because I believe many would be helped and encouraged by it. <br />Love, <br />Molly<br />Molly Noble Bullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08811325552308982572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8113039007643369603.post-67434099048560275182013-01-08T18:23:51.664-08:002013-01-08T18:23:51.664-08:00Amen! My daughter was kicked out of a Christian sc...Amen! My daughter was kicked out of a Christian school, not because she was misbehaving or we didn't pay the bill. It was because she wasn't going to pass kindergarten for the 3rd time and they didn't know how to help her. We were told we should enroll her in the public school system b/c they had the special programs to provide what she needed. I went home and cried b/c both of us worked and I wanted to her to be in a Christian environment. As I prayed and prayed about her situation, God finally gave me peace when He reminded me that even the public school system needed light and she would be the light. She attended public school until high school and now we are pulling her out to homeschool her. <br /><br />It hurts. We have attended nearly 20 different churches in our area, but none of the youth ministries have a true understanding of what it is like for a teen who has Epilepsy, Asperger's Syndrome, ADD, Sensory Integration Disorder, and delayed development. Our daughter is dealing with all these issues at once. You won't know it when you first meet her and talk to her. Because her special needs aren't "apparent", it makes it difficult. She doesn't always respond in the way that is expected when she is surprised by something or she doesn't understand something or she's being exposed to something for the first time. She has trouble processing gray areas. In her mind everything is black or white, wrong or right--she will point things out to adults in a blunt way, and they might think she's being rude and snap at her. Then her feelings are hurt and she shuts down and doesn't want to have anything else to do with them. She doesn't trust them.<br /><br />They think we're being over-protective or that we don't have enough "faith" to let go and trust or they worry too much about liability. There is no balance. One of the Christian schools refused to give our daughter her meds during the day when she was in grade school. They thought I should get off work and drive over and give it to her each day, as if my boss would let me do that! <br /><br />It's hard enough to find balance in our lives, but we should find understanding and sanctuary in churches, and we have found very little. I'm so glad I have a real relationship with Christ and that this is not how Christ would treat my child or us. <br /><br />When I try to talk to other Christians, I get that sympathy look and the "I'll pray for you" comments. I never turn down prayer, but we can pray for ourselves. We don't need platitudes. How about a little acceptance, a little thoughtfulness, a little fellowship, a little inclusion, a little friendship that is REAL? <br /><br />Thanks for bringing up a good topic. I'm glad to feel like someone finally gets it.Jennifer Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06360330085131177132noreply@blogger.com